The first trip together, ohhh so much plans and hopes for lovely adventure, enjoying by the sea or long romantic walks at sunset. Although you might be pretty excited for trip, for the first one you must be very careful, we don’t want to scare you, but is could be a deal breaker.
When you are in new relationship and you are planning your first trip, regardless if it is a holiday by the sea, or weekend in the mountain or visiting new city, you must get ready. Firstly because you going to be together 24 hours, you will share room, so that means bathroom, he or she will probably see you not in your best mood and you have to compromise.
Whether you are headed to Wine Country or to Italy, may on a sunny beach, the first overnight trip you take with a new partner can be tricky. But not to be pessimist, everything could be taken care of if you get ready, be relax and take the following advice
Choose destination wisely
When you planning a trip, you must choosing the destination is priority. So, you both must agree on a place that give what you want, like beach for you and museum for you partner. If you are pushing to your partner the place you want to be, you might have a bad trip even before it start.
Less is MORE
This is true, we tent to pack as much as we can…and if cant feet all in the suitcase we end up with lots of bags that he will have to carry. So, pack what you really need because he is a man and there will be a point when he will say I told you so…meaning you don’t need ten dresses and four pair of sandals. At the end of the trip you probably be mostly in your swim suit or the most comfortable pant and shirts.
Keep It Simple
Traveling can tell a lot about a person, especially if it is the first trip together. Leaving our comfort zone can bring out the best and worst in us. Sometimes quirks, daily rituals, and our ability or inability to roll with the punches become glaringly obvious. Keep your vacation plans simple and comfortable by bypassing a camping trip without bathrooms or a road trip without air-conditioning. Definitely avoid a meet-and-greet with the family. Save the adventures and big-deal introductions for another time.
Money? Best 50-50
So, if you are not in a long relationship, but you want to travel, the best way is to split the costs, let say 50 -50, totally fair and clear. Is it her treat, or his? If one of you is a little more frugal while the other spares no expense, problems could occur. That is why you need to set the budget before you leave.
The bathroom talk
It might not be the most pleasant conversation, but it must be done. Talk about sharing the bathroom. Time yourself and tell him how long you’ll need in the bathroom and give him the choice of sleeping in, or waiting for you. And, an extra tip, get something for him in your bag, he is a man, so he probably go with just a toothbrush and deodorant.
Romance, romance, romance
That is the key of the first trip together, wherever you are by the sea or in a European city, make time to plan an unforgettable romantic moment. Take a candle, chocolates and a bottle of something special and surprise him.
Useful Tips for Your First Trip Together
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